To IJ042: Some of you guys may disagree for what i did, but to some others, what i'm doing is to the defense and benefit of you peeps.
To all of IJ042: Take care~!!!
To Shao Wen: You may disagree with me, but i hope we do remain as friends afterall.
Ok. I admit. What i did today was realli out of my position. But to watch such injust unfold right in front of me is too much for me to bear. To those who wasn't there, let me describe what happened.
When i got to their table, Mingli was preparing to leave, during which she mentioned to her grp that she'll send her OP slides to Tiha to compile. She also mentioned that she'll be out for the day, presumely which her friends. Then Ben, in turn,was given a dressing down for reasons which i know but will not say as it will be again out of my position if i do speak of it. He was then given a time at which he was to send his report to Tiha. However, like Mingli, he'll be out for the day. But unlike Mingli, he is not able to send in his report on time. There were already arguments and what i was seeing then was injust. That when i came in.
I said that it was not fair that the grp is against Ben going out but not against Mingli going out. With Shao Wen emphasizing on the word "prioritise", i felt that it was super unfair to Ben. IJ042 may think that I speaking on the behalf of Ben as he's my bf. But pls allow me to make this clear. I do not speak from a bias point of view. instead, i spoke in terms of a third party who is not involve in the "fight" in any way.
Look at it in Ben's shoes, he was told to redo the slides he was told to complete. He had to redo as it was lacking in terms of contents, but which he was not told to do. For his going out, IJ042 was very much against. Why? Because of his inability to pass the slides to Tiha on time? It was only a misfortune that he did not anticipate such unclear instructions that will later cause him to redo his slides. It was only a misfortune that he wasn't able to make it for the time set by Tiha. Why blame him?
Prioritise. I hear you speak. But why tell him? Why not say that to other group members? When they cld call for meeting anytime they want, at their own preferences, at their own schedule but without considering Ben's. From what i see, IJ042 is a case of splinter groups. Leader. Are you still a leader if you sow discord instead of solving differences? Are you still a leader if you talk behind someone's back?
If not for Yasmin, i wld nvr know that you are such a leader. A leader who will ignore the welfare of your own members for the benefit of your friends. A leader who put so much distances between you and your members that problems in your group do not surface to you.
I wasn't that much against you till i saw it for myself today. Previously, i was not even when i heard so much abt you frm Ben as i knew that some things are not the same when told by a first party. But when i saw it today, i was totally disgusted by your actions.
When i, a leader see such injust in a grp, i, a leader do not ignore but come in defense for the wounded.
